Happy Wife, Happy Life

In Two Into One, we discussed The Longing – that profound ache within each of us to return to the source of all things, THE ONE TRUE GOD. We learned that the feminine is the gateway to healing this separation, to merge with the source, while the masculine archetype cannot achieve this level of surrender, and thus is destined to remain separate.

So what does this mean for your relationship?

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Happy wife, happy life?

Completion

Happy wife, happy life means that through the feminine, this most profound ache of longing and feeling separate and alone, may be resolved.

When a man puts his wife’s happiness first, he is also supporting the happiness and well-being of his own internal feminine (the anima), and it is through this inner feminine that HIS connection to Spirit is nourished; and that gaping absence of connection within him begins to heal. Huzzah! And Hallelujah!

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Unlimited Rewards On All Levels

The best possible life

When you practice unconditional love toward the feminine, great things inevitably happen:

She is happier, for she is loved and appreciated. Your internal feminine is happier – unconditionally loving your wife, upon whom you project your feminine, also feels loved. As the feminine aspects of the relationship are nourished, there is profound security and comfort in the home. A safe place to let go and let God. You become the best possible you as parent, lover, friend, child, worker, and husband.

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But What About Me?

It’s All About You!

Some might protest: How can I get anything done when I constantly do things for my wife or partner’s feminine side?

You will find, in a short time, that the time spent loving your wife returns to you manyfold. Your focus is better, far more energy, you sleep better, your relationships at work improve, and your access to intuition and subsequent problem-solving skills is enhanced.

When the feminine is cherished and loved, the gates of heaven open, and you will have access to a source of love that is far, far above the mundane.

When a wife understands the degree of your commitment, her generosity toward you increases, and the number of times she will say yes to you pursuing your goals and pleasures in life will increase. There will be no more arguments, for by loving and cherishing her, she will be free to return that love to you tenfold – for that is her nature.

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The Liberation

Magical Moments

There is magic in relationships. When you commit to your wife’s feminine – “happy wife, happy life” – the need for other partners disappears. For it is in your loving her as best as you can and as often as you can that you are liberated from the dark drive of The Longing.

You will no longer need to seek the endorphins of exercise, the dopamine of alcohol and drugs, the fantasies of affairs and pornography. You will be free to balance the do’er and be’er and live in harmony.

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For Our Gender-Fluid World

Love of the feminine will always bring peace

How does the concept of happy wife, happy life apply to our current gender-fluid world?

Simply replace the word “wife” with the feminine aspect of your partner. Regardless of which of the myriad gender distinctions you or your partner or partners identify with, every one of you carries both archetypes of feminine and masculine to some degree or another.

Honor that feminine nature of your partner, and keep that part happy. You and your partner’s life will flourish.